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Post  cyprussyd on 2017-11-04, 10:49 am

Getting a bit out of hand IMO and the trivial complaints and witch hunts are in danger of trivialising the real abuse.

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Post  canary-dave on 2017-11-04, 11:02 am

cyprussyd wrote:Getting a bit out of hand IMO and the trivial complaints and witch hunts are in danger of trivialising the real abuse.

I couldn't agree more Syd, there appears to be a lot of jumping on the bandwagon

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Post  Hieronymus on 2017-11-04, 12:27 pm

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Post  cyprussyd on 2017-11-04, 1:34 pm

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She says it better than I can.
Yes and I watched it and agree with her, however it still concerns me and I'm no woman basher, quite the opposite.

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Post  cyprussyd on 2017-11-04, 1:46 pm

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She says it better than I can.
Yes and I watched it and agree with her, however it still concerns me and I'm no woman basher, quite the opposite.

Its things like this

The Labour party is investigating Clive Lewis following an accusation that he groped a female party member at this year’s conference. Mr Lewis, MP for Norwich South and discussed as a future leader of the party, allegedly hugged the 39-year-old and “gave [her] bum a big squeeze” when they met for the first time in September. A friend of the woman has also claimed Mr Lewis “put his hand on her bum”. Mr Lewis denies the allegation, and told i that “I do not go around grabbing young people’s backsides, or anyone’s backsides, when I greet them. It’s not how I roll, it’s not what I do.” The party member, who had not attended a Labour conference before, explained to The Independent that she was not immediately upset about the events, but decided to bring the accusations forward after Labour sent out an email documenting the party’s sexual harassment policy and encouraging members to come forward.

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Post  Black Cat Kiwi on 2017-11-04, 7:48 pm

I've spent my entire working life respecting those whom I've worked with to now only just find out I've been living in my own little bubble when I could have possibly had women prepared to hug & squeeze me  Sad

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Post  cyprussyd on 2017-11-04, 8:01 pm

And in these relies I find the problem. 
i am a natural touchy person, whenever I meet Jerry or H I automatically give them a a hug. When I meet Dave or Lesmac I automatically shake their hand and often hug them.

No thought of anything sexual or lack of respect indeed quite the opposite, my way of showing love and respect and if for one moment I felt it made the other person uncomfortable I would stop.

It seems to me that I now live in a world were I need to be oh so careful how I act or look at children and now I am afraid to touch a woman,just in case.

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Post  Black Cat Kiwi on 2017-11-04, 10:13 pm

cyprussyd wrote:And in these relies I find the problem. 
i am a natural touchy person, whenever I meet Jerry or H I automatically give them a a hug. When I meet Dave or Lesmac I automatically shake their hand and often hug them.

No thought of anything sexual or lack of respect indeed quite the opposite, my way of showing love and respect and if for one moment I felt it made the other person uncomfortable I would stop.

It seems to me that I now live in a world were I need to be oh so careful how I act or look at children and now I am afraid to touch a woman,just in case.
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Post  cyprussyd on 2017-11-04, 10:55 pm

Black Cat Kiwi wrote:
cyprussyd wrote:And in these relies I find the problem. 
i am a natural touchy person, whenever I meet Jerry or H I automatically give them a a hug. When I meet Dave or Lesmac I automatically shake their hand and often hug them.

No thought of anything sexual or lack of respect indeed quite the opposite, my way of showing love and respect and if for one moment I felt it made the other person uncomfortable I would stop.

It seems to me that I now live in a world were I need to be oh so careful how I act or look at children and now I am afraid to touch a woman,just in case.
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Very true  Sad
And IMO very sad

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Post  Billy D on 2017-11-05, 11:49 am

cyprussyd wrote:And in these relies I find the problem. 
i am a natural touchy person, whenever I meet Jerry or H I automatically give them a a hug. When I meet Dave or Lesmac I automatically shake their hand and often hug them.

No thought of anything sexual or lack of respect indeed quite the opposite, my way of showing love and respect and if for one moment I felt it made the other person uncomfortable I would stop.

It seems to me that I now live in a world were I need to be oh so careful how I act or look at children and now I am afraid to touch a woman,just in case.
And nowt wrong with that but when you hug Jerry or H I'd guess you don't squeeze their arses?
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Post  cyprussyd on 2017-11-05, 11:52 am

Billy D wrote:
cyprussyd wrote:And in these relies I find the problem. 
i am a natural touchy person, whenever I meet Jerry or H I automatically give them a a hug. When I meet Dave or Lesmac I automatically shake their hand and often hug them.

No thought of anything sexual or lack of respect indeed quite the opposite, my way of showing love and respect and if for one moment I felt it made the other person uncomfortable I would stop.

It seems to me that I now live in a world were I need to be oh so careful how I act or look at children and now I am afraid to touch a woman,just in case.
And nowt wrong with that but when you hug Jerry or H I'd guess you don't squeeze their arses?
They do their best to tempt me

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Post  Billy D on 2017-11-05, 11:58 am

cyprussyd wrote:
Billy D wrote:
cyprussyd wrote:And in these relies I find the problem. 
i am a natural touchy person, whenever I meet Jerry or H I automatically give them a a hug. When I meet Dave or Lesmac I automatically shake their hand and often hug them.

No thought of anything sexual or lack of respect indeed quite the opposite, my way of showing love and respect and if for one moment I felt it made the other person uncomfortable I would stop.

It seems to me that I now live in a world were I need to be oh so careful how I act or look at children and now I am afraid to touch a woman,just in case.
And nowt wrong with that but when you hug Jerry or H I'd guess you don't squeeze their arses?
They do their best to tempt me
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Post  vinkel on 2017-11-06, 10:15 am

cyprussyd wrote:And in these relies I find the problem. 
i am a natural touchy person, whenever I meet Jerry or H I automatically give them a a hug. When I meet Dave or Lesmac I automatically shake their hand and often hug them.

No thought of anything sexual or lack of respect indeed quite the opposite, my way of showing love and respect and if for one moment I felt it made the other person uncomfortable I would stop.

It seems to me that I now live in a world were I need to be oh so careful how I act or look at children and now I am afraid to touch a woman,just in case.
Nothing makes me more happy than walking past a school at breaktime and hearing the kids laughter, it just warms my heart. But as you say, you have to be careful around children these sad days.

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